Less Conflict. More Connection.
Meet Ramona - The Couples Coach
Hello, I'm Ramona Lever - founder of The Couples Coach, qualified counsellor, and Gottman-trained relationship specialist. I've spent over 20 years supporting individuals and couples. Somewhere along the way, I noticed something important: most couples coming to see me didn't need deep therapy. They just needed help understanding each other and learning how to communicate.
When I discovered the Gottman Method - built on 40+ years of research into what actually makes relationships work - everything clicked. I combined this with my life coaching training and years of counselling experience, and The Couples Coach was born.
Why I Love Working with Couples
Here's the truth: I've been married for almost 34 years.
We have three grown adult kids and three (gorgeous) grandbabies. We went through some pretty tough times - we all do as couples right? And if I had known back then what I teach couples now - our relationship (and life) would have been so much easier.
We're not taught this stuff. We model what we see growing up - whether those relationships are healthy or not. And no one really knows what goes on behind closed doors... unless you're a counsellor like me. I've seen and heard a lot. I know what works and what makes a difference.
That's why I'm so passionate about this work. Because when couples finally understand what's happening between them - and have practical tools to do something about it - anything is possible.
Why "Conscious" Couples?
At The Couples Coach, everything I do is built around one idea: becoming conscious in your relationship.
Being conscious means:
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Being mindful and present with your partner
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Becoming aware of what's really happening between you
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Recognising what's working and what's not
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Being ready to commit to meaningful change
It's not about blame. It's not about digging up the past. It's about seeing clearly, understanding each other, and choosing to move forward together.
That's the foundation of the Conscious Couples approach - and it runs through every workshop and coaching session I offer.
Why Coaching, Not Counselling
I'm a qualified counsellor and I still run a counselling practice for individuals.
But for couples facing everyday relationship challenges, I've found that a coaching and education-based approach often works faster and more effectively. It's practical, forward-focused, and grounded in evidence-based principles.
That said, I have deep respect for therapy - and for couples dealing with complex trauma, mental health concerns, or serious relational distress, I'll always guide you toward the most appropriate support.
Qualifications & Experience
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Bachelor of Counselling
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Registered Counsellor (ACA Level 4)
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Certified Gottman Method Practitioner
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Prepare Enrich Practitioner
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Neurochange Master Practitioner
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Certified Soul Blueprint Coach®
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20+ years supporting individuals and couples
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Founder of Inner Bliss Wellbeing (holistic counselling)
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Founder of The Couples Coach
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Recognised healthcare provider (Listed on the National Health Provider Identifier (HPI) Register)
Who I Work With
Couples who care about their relationship. whether you're just starting out, navigating a rough patch, or simply want things to feel closer and easier.
You don't need to be in crisis to benefit from this work. Many couples come to me because something feels "off" and they want to reconnect before it becomes something bigger.
If you're ready to understand each other better, communicate more clearly, and build something stronger - you're in the right place.
"You helped us so much. We've changed the way we treat each other - we're more understanding and patient. I feel like I have my best friend back."
Lanie & Joel
You’ll gain practical, easy‑to‑use tools for navigating conflict with more calm and respect, breaking your unhelpful patterns, and repairing moments when things go off track.
The aim is simple: less conflict, more connection, and a relationship that feels safe, supportive, and built to last.
The Gottman Method for couples
I use this method in particular because it's a proven research‑informed approach to couples coaching. It helps partners feel closer, more understood, and more connected.
It focuses on strengthening your relationship through everyday moments - showing appreciation, improving communication, and learning how to really listen to each other.
Ways we can help you improve your relationship
Couples Clarity Session - Private Couples Session
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Conscious Couples Workshop - 60 Min. Group workshop
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Conscious Couples Intensive - Full day workshop
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